Candle lighting is a way of prayer. Long after our attention has moved on to other things, a lit votive candle symbolizes the intention of our love for God in Christ and the presence of our request before heaven. Votive comes from the Latin word votum, meaning vow, but vigil—a much better word for this practice—means watchfulness.
Candles are often set aside in the front or back of churches for this purpose. I will sometimes light one of these at my home parish, either before the service begins or immediately after taking Communion, as a prayer to my grandmother or as a petition for a needy friend. I’ve been lighting a lot of candles, lately.
When used in prayer, a candle can show our persistence and continual desire to be with God, to listen for God’s will, and to seek the intercession of one of the saints. I often use a candle in this spirit in the early morning when I am the only person awake in the house, reading or praying.
Many Christians from all denominations have small spaces called home altars where vigil candles are often kept and used for prayer. Like the psalmist, we may say, “Let my prayer be counted as incense before you, and the lifting up of my hands as an evening sacrifice” (Psalm 141:2).
This is a great practice: Offer a blessing over your candles, sanctifying them for the purpose of prayer. I sometimes use this prayer…
God of light, light to the nations,
light that reaches into all darkness,
use these candles to illuminate us.
May the light of our prayers always be with You,
quietly in Your holy presence,
and may we always be
reflected in Your true Light. Amen.